During life, you can’t help but from relationships and you will come across many individuals some of whom may really fascinate you. You’ll feel like keeping correspondence with them. What is it that makes these interactions so attractive and how can the comfort levels be increased?
All the relationships on this whole wide world depend on the basic quality of how well are you able to understand the other human being you are interacting with. Whether it’s your parents or partner three major factors are governing your relationships- You’ve to accept the person as well as get accepted. This factor is more applicable in the case of the relationship of partners. Neither can parents let go of you nor can you leave them at any juncture. Though after a time their involvement in your life gets minimum but still somewhere their feelings does matter. You may not agree with all the ideologies of your parents but it’s always possible to strike a balance.
However, for partners, this feeling of mutual acceptance is the start-all and end-all of the relationship. If you feel that your partner has an influence on you, be assured that your relationship has a foundation. There is a string joining the two of you. Do not tell your partner any such thing which he/she already knows. How are you involved then? Unless and until you’re not in the shoes of your partner you cannot realize his or her problems and issues and hence do not even pass judgments. All these factors involve emotions that you might hurt even unknowingly and spoil your relationship.
While a testing time will always renew your assurance regarding your relationship with your parents, that is the real catalytic test of you as a part of a couple. Whether you are starting a new job or are unemployed or have the victim of some accident the solidarity of your partner and you as a partner will prove the longevity and health of your relationship.
Another of the most amazing series of relationships is that what you broadly categorize as ‘Friendship’. Throughout your life, you’ll come across many people, through chance meetings or purpose-driven causes. Many among them you’ll feel you’re connected to. All these relations you cannot term as romantic ones. They are swift and leave an impression on your heart and mind. When they abruptly come to an end it’s difficult to cope at times.
Then is your relationship with your college buddies. They’re an indispensable part of your life at one point in time. Eventually, you drift apart the knowingly, and that accompanies some difficult emotions too where either of you or both find the respective journeys.
In all these relationships you’ll find an intricate web of emotions involved. All will demand your commitment during their existing time and you have to be truthful. Before you connect to someone else understand yourself. Do not give hopes when you are unsure of fulfilling them yourself. And lastly, be you. No relationship can survive on pretensions. Artificiality and lack of involvement.
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